How do we experience love?

Hey everyone! 

This is not really a typical blog post, just some of my thoughts, but let's try :)
I decided to talk about love, because I've witnessed so many unreal and toxic relationships or just real love at the wrong place at the wrong time. And that bothers me, why can't there be just love and everything is perfect from that moment on?

Nowdays, in this "new age" era people don't even know what love is, or I better say they now exactly what love is, but they don't want to have "problems" with it. 

Some people say: "Oh my god, I'm so in love with this person, but I can't get into a relationship because I don't want to have problems." Wait a second, if you don't want to have problems you are not in love with this person. You just want to have a quick romance, because you are lonely. This is not love. 

But does love even exist? We all know what love feels like, butterflies, heart beating and stuff. But is it really just that? No, it's not! It is compassion, understanding, support, trust, encouragement, romance and some passion. An ideal love is not just the physical stuff, but also mental stuff. You can be in love with someone, but if you don't love with all your heart and accept the person, you are not ready. You have to be prepared to go to the end of the world for someone and also you have to be together against the world not against to eachother. 

We fear this kind of love, the real love, because we don't want to do anything for person we "love". We just want to be loved, but we don't give anything in return. And that's our problem in a modern world. Maybe I read too much books and my expectations about love aren't "right", don't get me wrong, I know there is no perfect relationship. But both people have to work for it, together. Both have to be dedicated to eachother, trust and stop being assholes that society made us. 

Love,